Allow yourself to relax, have good times, ... but work as hard as you can in every aspect of your life. It will pay off.
Try to keep things as much simpler as you can, for you and for the rest. Live a coherent life. Will help you a lot to face difficult times. Enjoy tiny things around you
Transformation needs a change acceptance, a special attitude. Not being afraid of what will be said. Join the crazy team to move forward
Once you start being curious about what is out there, when you need to know more and more you care less about who are the others. Life gets much more easier.