Language is the main vehicle for communication. It’s how we learn at the earliest stage of our life how the worlds looks like and works. It is part of what defines us, who we are or who we want to become.
So, the words we choose, the way we express ourselves, say a lot about us, how do we want to relate with other people. It is a tool and a modeling clay. You decide how to see the world and how to be seen.
What do you mean? = I don’t see what you are doing or I am not able to see it it the same way
I agree = we both see it the same way
I disagree = I have a different approach, a different look
So, our choice of words are quite a thing!