We live in a fast pace world and we expect ourselves to transition at the same speed. New job, personal changes, .. we want to be in the game right away, no waiting, no time in between phases. And when we see that it takes longer than expected to be up and running, or that the previous experience is of no use, … impatience, frustration.
Any process in life takes its own roadmap and pace, its own transition period or learning curve. From time to time we can find a shortcut, but, still, will have to do the walk. And while we take the ride it probably will not make any sense, seem surreal, unnecessary.
But, once you get there, you reach the projected goal, pieces will start to fit and almost without realizing it, Boom! You got it!
Wax on, wax off.